Clubbing etiquette is especially hard for guys that they there just to get laid. So obsessed with girls they often walk in and give off the desperate vibe at best, and the wolf vibe at worst. Let me say it again, don't immediately check out every girl in the place. Do you ever see a female '10' walk in do that? Never.

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Boston guys underestimate generally on the power of their associations. Who are you at the club with makes a difference. I was out doing my approaching thing one night, and got separated from my pickup buddies. I was sitting with a girl on a couch, and it was going well, and she pointed out two Boston guys at the bar and said "wow, those guys look like drink spikers". Was fairly tricky to explain those were my friends. She was seeing something I couldn't. Its not like you can't pickup when you are with guys who lower your status, its just that you need to factor that into your interaction, and cover it off in advance. My girlfriend made a comment about my friends, that they didn't make any sense to her at all. Why would I hang out with these guys? I explained the pickup coaching and it made sense. The fact I was helping these guys out was a real positive. Obviously I didn't diss my friends or insult them, and my game surpassed who I was hanging out with, it didn't matter.

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Next is walk slowly. Like really slowly. Have all the time in the world. Play a game on how slow you can walk to the bar. Next is work on your posture. A natural I knew a few years ago said going out was the best ab workout you can get, he'd be sucking in his stomach and holding perfect posture the entire night. And he had the best abs I had ever seen. Good posture sends so many of the right evolutionary messages. I've just spent 2 months at the physio having my posture worked on, and spent many weeks of those months with my shoulders strapped back with tape. Bad posture, well, it'll fuck you shit up. Stand against a wall sideways, and having someone take your picture. Next is your energy, are you happy, and smiling? How are you living your life? Are you lazy, slack, hating life, depressed, bored? You walk into a club and think you can fake the opposite, and have Boston women approach you? Good luck! Or are you hungry in your life, on a roll, enjoying a period of good luck, excited about your life, and you walk in like you just won the lottery because you love your life that much? Too much pickup material focuses on the stuff you do while in an interaction, what about the rest of your life?

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But I want to add this to your awareness so you can begin to notice patterns because you'll find pickup to be both easier, and harder, dependent on who you hang out with. Most guys have no concept of this at all, but your friends are such an important factor. On the vice versa have high status friends, and the game gets really easy. (don't be offended at this concept, guys tend to hate being judged by their friends, but such is life). Its why I tend to prefer solo game. Next is your ability to negotiate a crowd. Are you easily bumped, swayed, pushed around, taken off course, or soft in your crowd handling. Or do you clear a path, people get out of your road, and do you generally really have a commanding presence? Women will notice How you work a crowd, how easily you can be served drinks at the bar, and what they notice about you while not talking to you often has a greater effect than what you say when talking to them. Are you inconsiderate to other people? Are you friendly but firm? Do people not notice you and get in your road like you don't exist? Do you appear bigger than you really are? I think that the thing that guys who are bad with women fail to realize is that all the small details matter. Like how you wake up in the morning matters when you are talking to women on the weekend. If you are excited about life it will show.

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Next is your image. Your clothes, your colour co-ordination, your hair, your branding, your jacket, your shoes, your unique identity. If you aren't being approached at least once per night at the moment, then I'd say something is wrong with your current image. Get INDEPENDENT ADVICE. I cannot stress this enough. Next is your walk. I judge people by their walk. You can tell so much by it. The American Government is developing a technology to put surveillance on the entire world, guess how they are doing it? Thats right, by people's walk. Everyone has a unique walk, like a fingerprint, and with a satellite they can follow people around the world. They have buildings where an alarm goes off if you don't have authorization, and this is all done by cameras that sense your walk. All the authorized staff have their walk on record. Next is your friends. Personally I prefer to enter a club on my own. That way I control the situation. entering with guys who hawk out the venue, makes pickup just as hard for me as those guys, and thats something I don't want. If your friends are desperate obsessed with women types, meet them inside. Men judge women by their waistlines, women judge men by their friends. Not fair sure, but it does tell you so much about them.

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